Omiai should not be banned

        Once, people heard about “omiai” or the other word we called it as arrange marriage, they will straightly think it is a marriage without love and many fighting inside the marriage and it will affect negative for the family especially their children. Nevertheless, survey show that divorce happen more often in love marriage. People who do arrange married usually get strong support from their parents so if they have problem, they try to solve it with their parents. Therefore, they cannot divorce easily as people who do love marriage because they have responsible not only to their spouse or children but also to their parents. Furthermore, they usually have same backgrounds which reduce fights because as we know fighting mostly comes from many differences from the spouse. Hence, even though many negative thinks about arrange married but we can see from the other side that our parents who arrange our married know the best for us so they absolutely try to find the spouse who compatible with us.